I’m not sure that it’s clear to you, but the enemy has attacked the institution of marriage. He has done this by planting the thought that you don’t have to be married to enjoy the fruits of a marriage, relationship, sharing the responsibility of raising kids, sharing a home, sharing a vehicle, sharing money, etc. What has actually happened here is that people have settled for the counterfeit of fornication and shacking instead of the institution of marriage that God designed. Loving self is the reason behind this. Men and women love themselves so much that they refuse to wholly commit to another person . . . First they refuse to wholly commit to God.
2For men will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, 4treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5holding to a form of godliness, although they have denied its power; Avoid such men as these. 2 Timothy 3:2
So, as time continues to pass things will grow worse and you will see more and more perversion of the truth of God’s Word. The Bible predicts these things and will show you things to come. Stick with God and watch Him be pleased with your faith and move on your behalf.